WHOA! An Atlanta Baller Is Gay & Did WHAT?!?
Wow!! I KNEW when I opened up the Ask Miss Jia section of the website, the flood gates would go apesh*t but I didn’t know that ANY of it would involve actual celebrities! Please read this guy’s JUICY story! You’re not going to believe it (and YES, I know WHO this person is and WILL reveal it here on MissJia.com). Although it’s a long read, I’m telling you…you guys have GOT to take a moment and read it! Please post your thoughts on the letter I received in my inbox after the break!
This relationship goes back to late 2001. He was a junior football
> player in college in _____. It did not begin as a sexual relationship,
> we actually started as very good friends. He always told me about
> his girlfriends, and would often seek relationship advice. Advice
> came in the form of IM/email and telephone conversations to sending
> money to pay for his dates (i.e. flowers, dinner, hotel rooms,
> etc). In addition I would send him money because, according to him,
> his parents didn’t support him financially, or emotionally as I
> later found out in our relationship. Things didn’t become serious or
> sexual until February 2002. He called 3 days after Valentine’s Day
> to tell me his girlfriend broke up with him. He was devastated and
> heartbroken, and requested I meet him at our mutual location in
> ____________ since it was an equal travel distance for both of us.
>
> We met in ___________ and things were normal as usual; we hung out,
> grabbed drinks, and talked about his ex-girflriend situation. When I
> got back to my hotel room, we just chilled, drank, and talked about
> his ex-girlfriend some more. This time, it was different. He asked
> me to give him a massage, I didn’t ask to do it, and was actually a
> little uncomfortable that he asked because I made it a point to not
> make him feel uncomfortable by being around me. I was and have
> always been a private person, even though we weren’t together like
> that at the time. I knew he was a football player, and being
> platonic friends with a gay man at that time, hell, even now, can
> ruin careers for whatever reason. I didn’t want people to make any
> assumptions of him based on his friendship with me. Up until this
> point, we were NOT lovers. However, this night, a massage, led to
> him taking his shirt off (not at my request), then to more intimate
> affection. It was this night that we first became sexually involved.
> It was very sexual, not just oral. The next day, I woke up on one
> bed and he on the other. I pretended to not know what happened, and
> he replied “you know what happened” as if it wasn’t a big deal. I
> was his first male experience, and that’s where our sexual
> relationship started.
>
> Even after this encounter, our relationship was never strictly
> sexual. We had a quintessential relationship. He told me he loved
> me (something HE started), and we spoke and saw each other
> regularly. We both recognized that our relationship could not be
> known b/c of the obvious stigma, and he was in college, a young
> black male, etc. I am an openly gay man, and never denied my
> sexuality around him, in public or private. By nature I am a private
> and nurturing person, and my concern was protecting him. He often
> vented his frustrations about the situation, but more than anything,
> he felt it wasn’t anybody’s business who he was with.
>
> During our relationship, he had no ambition of becoming a
> professional athlete because he didn’t think he was good enough.
> Like most college students, he was also constantly broke. Only
> unlike most college students, his parents rarely sent him anything.
> I sent him money ALL the time. I sent him money more than anyone,
> accumulating thousands of dollars over a 2-year period. It wasn’t
> until he was named fullback of the year that his status as a
> potential NFL candidate was elevated. He obtained an agent, and
> began attending combines. After confirming that a multi-million
> dollar deal was in the works, he pretty much told me we would have
> to distance ourselves from each other, but that he would take care
> of me as an appreciation for all I had done for him, financially and
> emotionally. It hurt, naturally, but I understood. Even after
> knowing about his deal, I still sent him money. I sent him $600 a
> week before he signed his first contract. Shortly thereafter, our
> communication all but ceased.
>
> I would still send him occasional text/emails or call, with no
> reply. If he didn’t want me to contact him, he would have changed
> his number, but he never did. On or around Thanksgiving 2005, I sent
> him a text wishing him Happy Thanksgiving, and he replied. After 1
> 1/2 years, he replied with a half-ass response, basically saying
> thank you for everything you have done and God will bless you. Was
> he trying to tell me he no longer wanted me, or my lifestyle?
> Whatever it was, it pissed me off and in 2006 when I decided to move
> from NC to NJ, I used all of the frustration I had to contact him
> one last time. Knowing I basically took care of this man during his
> college career, and now he is making millions of dollars every year,
> and can only thank me with a text saying God Bless you as if he
> doesn’t know me? No thanks, I text him that we needed to talk and he
> replied it would have to wait until the season was over.
>
> After the season was over, I told him that I needed help moving and
> he traveled to NC to give me money. It was at this time that we
> began to reconnect emotionally and sexually. He would visit me in NJ
> and on one particular visit in 2006, he told me, in a Newark, NJ
> hotel, that he wanted a relationship with me, a monogamous
> relationship. At this time he did not have a girlfriend, and
> promised he was not seeing anyone else. No matter what he said, I
> always had my suspicions he was seeing women while in a relationship
> with me. Still, like any significant other of a professional
> athlete, I was invited to his games, he would send me money to rent
> cars and drive to his games, reserve a hotel room, and leave tickets
> for me at will-call. I’ve been to his home before. Our privacy was
> more important to me, not him. When we argued, which was alot, it
> was always about his frustrations about my choice to not be
> affectionate or, pretty much myself, around him in public. I always
> explained to him the consequences, no matter how ignorant it was for
> anyone to judge his ability as an athlete based on his sexual
> preference for women or men, or both.
>
> We had a relationship that worked for us, then everything changed in
> the mid to late 2000s. It was at this time, that he started acting weird. Our
> conversations just didn’t seem the same, and he was trying to
> distance himself again. Please keep in mind, we had a relationship,
> everything I knew about him, I knew from him. However, this time was
> different. One day he called to tell me he had really big news and
> said it would be worth my while. His exact words. I didn’t like the
> sound of it, and just felt like something wasn’t right. Trusting him
> as the man I loved, I allowed him to send me money to travel down to
> see him. He wanted to meet at his house, but I didn’t feel right, so
> I demanded we meet in a public place. I pulled up, saw him at a
> table and sat down. He literally looked at me, got up, without
> saying a word, and a man in a suit sat down and slid an envelope to
> me. In a nutshell, this bastard set me up! The man that sat down was
> his lawyer. He basically told me that I should take what’s in the
> envelope and not contact him again. The best part is that this wanna-
> be lawyer said they were keeping the “NFL police” at bay from me.
> What the hell? NFL police? At bay? From me? I was fuming. After all
> I had done for this man, all of the years we spent together,
> emothionally AND sexually, and he is going to try and get rid of me
> as if I am some secret he needs to brush under the rug, some fling
> he had, someone worth only a dollar value to him? I did not make a
> scene, though in hindsight I should have. I never opened the
> envelope, which I am sure enclosed a check for an undisclosed
> amount. I never looked at it. Never wanted to. I walked out and saw
> my former lover get out of his white mercedes benz, shook as hell.
> He knew I didn’t take the money and he just kept saying, what
> happened, what happened. Sad man. I didn’t say a word, I just
> looked at him, the look that says “How dare you? You WILL hear from
> me again. Just not now.”
>
> It wasn’t until I got back home, got my thoughts together and tried
> to figure out why he would be so cruel to me and publicly degrade
> me. Oh, the beauty of the internet. Jackass. He just signed a deal
> with the Atlanta Falcons, totaling over $20 million dollars. That is
> why he tried to write me off. Because of money. I was beyond hurt
> and angry. If it was ever about money with me, I would have made
> that clear, or at least try to contact him again to settle a
> monetary deal to shut me up. But how can it be about money when I
> took care of and loved this man. I am the reason he even had the
> confidence to believe he could be a professional athlete. He dare
> not deny it. No one believed in him, that’s what he told me. Those
> were the type of conversations we had. And our relationship came
> down to a check?
>
>
> Shortly after this incident I became very stressed and hospitalized
> for 2 weeks for high blood pressure and heart failure at 33. I still
> to this day know all that came along because of what he put me
> through and how he completly disrepected our bond. Laying in that
> hospital bed made me see things about him I never thought could be.
> How could someone I loved, and loved me, so much lie to me and set
> me up? Then I knew the old wise tale was true, money is truly the
> root to all evil!
>
> The reason I have decided to come out with this story is because I
> have given him more than enough time to right this wrong. To not
> treat me like a skeleton in his closet, but to speak to me, man to
> man about the situation, and why he turned our relationship into a
> would-be scandal. I am the one who told him my being his lover could
> ruin his career, and I kept our relationship between us because he
> was right, it wasn’t anyone’s business. He is the one doing this to
> his life, not me. He is the one living the extravagent life in
> Atlanta, posing in magazines as one of the most eligible bachelors,
> dating countless women, who can confirm as I know, he has hate
> issues with women. I’m sure any woman he has been with up until this
> point has only been with him for his money, but he doesn’t care
> because it looks “normal.” He promised he would take care of me, but
> only when he was a low-profile athlete. The minute he turned high-
> profile, he let the wrong people get in his ear, people whom he pay
> to protect his image, yet they made the mistake of ruining him by
> trying to hush me with money.
>
> To this day, I have no idea what was in that envelope, but there is
> no amount of money that will heal a scorned heart. And now he needs
> to man up, if he can even call himself that, and stop living a lie.
> I know I was his first male sexual experience, and I believe I am
> the only man he has been with, but he is a known liar, so I can’t
> say I fully believe that myself. The fact remains that we did have a
> sexual relationship. I’m not here to call him, gay, straight, or bi.
> He’s grown and can defend himself, or hire a lawyer to do it for
> him. I don’t have the money or the luxury to do so. I’m here to
> confirm that no one is above being responsible for their actions. No
> amount of money, or publicist, can clean your image up enough so
> that the person you truly are will never see the light of day. My
> story is no secret. For every story written like mine, there are
> thousands unwritten that would read the same, only those took the
> envelope and walked away to let these men continue to live lies. I’m
> not going to be that person anymore. I have a life I need to live
> also, and the only way to bring closure to this situation is to get
> it off my chest. As I stated, I gave him over 2 years to right this
> wrong. He left me no choice, I have to do it my way.
>
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January 5th, 2010 at 2:58 pm
OH SHIT SON! That's not cool what dude did! Why would you disrespect someone like that and then try to pay them off. That's fucked up but ummm…..Jia….Who is the ball player?
January 5th, 2010 at 3:00 pm
lol I'm definitely going to post. Trust me, I hate blind items where websites NEVER reveal who the hell they're talking about. But I got you…promise!
January 5th, 2010 at 3:03 pm
OOOOOOOOO MMMMMMMMM GGGGGGGGGG. This shit is JUICY!!!!!
Chile, please don't get me to crying… I feel the writer's pain more than anyone would know… You'd be amazed at the shit we go through all because these men "can't" be true to themselves… Bitch if you love me, grab yo balls, squeeze them bitches and tell anybody that objects us to jump off Mt. Kilimanjaro. *sigh* In a Perfect world of course…
January 5th, 2010 at 10:03 am
Yea Jia…who is this mystery baller?
January 5th, 2010 at 3:04 pm
Thats crazy but I do believe it….he does live in Atlanta….but what goes around comes back around again…every dog has their day….i wouldve prolly taken the money just because he owes it to me…and still wouldve writen the letter….that man got feelings too regardless of that fact that he's a man
January 5th, 2010 at 3:09 pm
okayyyyyyyy then. umm I'm from the Bahamas, so can someone please tell me if there is one straight brother in Atlanta? cause I mean whoah. anyway they usually say "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" but hell a scorned man takes the cake
January 5th, 2010 at 3:10 pm
Damn. You can't use people like that, it will undoubtly come back to bite you in the behind, especially when a broken heart is involved. Whoever the writer of the letter is, I hope he knows what he's doing, because once you put somebody out there like that, if hes a "high profile" player, hes not just going to take it lying down. Players have had their pregnant girlfriends killed and what not. Who knows what this guy may do, if this gets out. Its a messy game to play. I understand his hurt though and his need to get it all out, to get on with it. But still..it's dangerous.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:10 pm
Maybe Ovie Mughelli???
January 5th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
Exactly! That's why I had to post it. It's bullshit that men get to run around here playing both sides of the fence, with one of those sides being "on the low." NOT cool!
January 5th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
Yea, I feel you. I could tell that the guy who wrote the letter was genuinely hurt.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:12 pm
I promise I got you guys. Definitely. I WILL NOT keep it a secret but I figured it'd be more 'interesting' to do it this way first
January 5th, 2010 at 10:13 am
WOW!!! WHo is this guy. Tell it Jia. Speeckless. The only thing worse than a woman scorned, is a man scorned.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
I google 20million and Falcons and got Michael Vick.Shite I'm playing Inspector Gadget on the internet, can you just tell us already?
January 5th, 2010 at 10:15 am
Will it be today?
January 5th, 2010 at 3:15 pm
I blog about the NFL and these type of relationships are very common. Due to the stereo types and fear, ballers won’t ever come out of the closet and it’s a shame. Many have wed, had children and continue to live double lives. SMH
January 5th, 2010 at 3:18 pm
Well……damn. 0_o
January 5th, 2010 at 3:18 pm
MMM… Juicy
January 5th, 2010 at 3:18 pm
ooooooo SHIT! YES that's ALL that comes up when you google 20 Million and falcons… OMG….
January 5th, 2010 at 10:18 am
What this fool expect u was dealing with an athlete u actually thought he was going to be comitted to u in the public eye u should have took the money and went ahead with ya life that’s what u would have done had he not had money u would have just left..u say money the root of all eveil yet u acting out on him because he is a public figure who has money otherwise it would not even matter to u LAME
January 5th, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Girl, I was so IN to this letter…I was yellin at my son to sit his ass down cus i was so glued to the damn computer screen. I cant wait til u post who this person is. Do you believe it? Its to well written and detailed to be a lie imo. what do you think?
January 5th, 2010 at 3:20 pm
is it Ovie Mughelli. hes a fullback for Atlanta and went to Wake Forest college in NC. I you can find out anything with the internet. with a little bit of research and information. lol.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:25 pm
Hey Juicy babes….
Yes maam I believe it, why? I have proof. Before I post anything like that, Ima make sure I have SOMETHING concrete. So uh….lmao yea! And you're like me. When the email came in, I was trying to zoom in on my Blackberry and shit. CRAZY!!!
January 5th, 2010 at 3:26 pm
Whattt!!!???!!!??
Miss Jia – PLEASE tell us who this is. He is dead-azz wrong for mistreating anyone. Especially a person that loved him sincerely. Real love is VERY HARD to come by!!!
I'll be waiting Miss Jia……
January 5th, 2010 at 3:26 pm
Jia— why this read like a page out of one of E Lynn Harris' books. Woah Chile' this is some crazy sh*t here and I lived in Greensboro from 04 to 06. Lawd, I have one in a million guesses who this person is.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:26 pm
No…the person who wrote the letter clearly said that they were together BEFORE this guy was even a blip on anyone's radar. I honestly don't think that the writer is about money b/c if he was, he would've taken the pay out and said "FUCK A BLOG!" lol
January 5th, 2010 at 3:27 pm
Wow.. That was a long read, but well worth it…. First, money is not the root of all evil, its the LOVE of money that is the root of all evil. So, in a nutshell, a high profiled ball player dumped is gay lover. Okay, so why is this any different from when a high profiled ball player or entertainer dumps his high school sweetheart or mother of his child once he starts making money? The only twist to this story is he is a closet gay. And?????????? Look, speaking as a scorned women, get over it and move on. Yeah, it hurts, yeah it sucks, but just like you, when I woke up from a coma, and realized that God was trying to tell me to move on, that's what I did, I moved on. That's what you need to do, move on… Good Luck !
January 5th, 2010 at 3:27 pm
Wowzers… this is some crazy shit… Celebs and Athletes need to be aware of this new age we are in. People are going to be held accountable for their actions whether they want to or not with all these outlets for them to be exposed.
To hell with that nonsense that he's a celebrity what you expect. A celebrity is a person regardless and needs to treat someone else as such especially someone who takes care of you when you don't have a bottle to piss in or tissue to wipe your ass. That shit is disgusting.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:28 pm
First off, what a well written letter…I felt your pain.
Now, I don't like people being forced out of the closet but I can't stand when people play with others emotions. ugh!
Y'all had a relationship and you think just writing a check and saying leave is good enough.
This baller should be exposed on the strength of him being a COWARD.
I wish the gay stigma would just go away…there are worst things to be in this world. Gay isn't even in the top 1,000.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
Okay there are only four players who went to college in NC that play for the Falcons and i narrowed it down to the best pick Ovie Mughelli…… Pow Yay—–
January 5th, 2010 at 3:31 pm
*jaw on the floor* Um…I want to know who this is NOW. Lmao. When will you reveal the identity Jia….please say today. Please? Lol
January 5th, 2010 at 3:31 pm
Girl, this is a real live E. Lynn Harris story, Basil Henderson is that you? Hmmmm. Can't wait until you post who this is until then, google.com will be my friend
January 5th, 2010 at 3:32 pm
JDolla me and you thinking alike….
January 5th, 2010 at 3:34 pm
You got it!!!
January 5th, 2010 at 3:34 pm
LMAOOOOO I know huh? My eyes were GLUED to my blackberry when this email came in!!!
January 5th, 2010 at 3:35 pm
I"m guess its Ovie Mughelli #kanyeshrugs
January 5th, 2010 at 3:39 pm
It has to be him—-
January 5th, 2010 at 3:39 pm
Cosign. Its Ovie. He went to Wake Forest. He's a fullback. [fullback of the year] Now plays for ATL…& signed a contract for 18 mil in '07. [Mid to late 2000s]
Wooooooow. Never would have guessed by looking at dude.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:41 pm
2 WRONGS do not make it RIGHT!! If he hurt you be a MAN (or man like) and MOVE ON!! You was NOT his first male sexual experience and do NOT believe the story ENTIRELY…The BALLER just doing ALL the wrong and YOU are the perfect VICTIM!! Child BOO-HOO!!
Destroying someone elses career or lively hood is NOT the answer for you being REJECTED/DUMPED & PLAYED!! I have been there too…Get OVER IT!! PRAY ABOUT IT!! This should make you STRONGER and WISER NOT EVIL and VENEDICTIVE!!
I am OUT!!
January 5th, 2010 at 10:43 am
WOW!! Men are more gutter than women! He was wrong for that because you don’t burn your bridges, you help those who have helped you in past. Ole’ boy gone be sorry he hurt dude feelings because now he is on blast for the world to see!! Oh Boy!!
January 5th, 2010 at 3:45 pm
i agree it is Ovie Mughelli. He was a lettered fullback at Wake Forest. If you read the letter, the person refers to him getting an award for being the college fullback. Also, Mughelli did an interview with African Vibes discussing how he never thought he was good enough to play pro ball. He felt he was not up the standards to play in the NFL. In the interview he also talks about how he didn't want to play ball, he wanted to be a doctor. It wasn't until his jr year that he actually started taking it seriously when he got an agent after his coach told him about scouts looking at him.Plus he got the highest paying fullback contract at 18million with a 5 million signing bonus, so that is close to the 20 million that the writer is confirming. Dang shame, I hope the writer finds peace.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:48 pm
OoOoOoo..juuuuuiiccccyyyyyyyy!!!!!…i cant wait till he is revealed…this isnt a surprise though…there are many athletes who are on the DL…its a shame
January 5th, 2010 at 3:52 pm
This is an interesting story, but he let himself be used by the baller for years. He started giving him money when they were platonic, and he continued to do so knowing deep down this man was going to remain on the DL. Now he wants revenge. We've all played the fool at one point. This is no different, in my opinion, gay or not. We learn our lessons and move on. He should do the same.
January 5th, 2010 at 10:54 am
He’s scorned. In one breathe he talks about all he did for him & how he promised to take care of him.
Seems to me that envolope had all he needed.
Using phrases like “man to man”. Naw’ll son you were the woman in this relationship,so STOP this ish! And in realtionships women are the ones that majority of the time end up hurt.
Jia, this fool has told you dude got legal goons. Check w/ an attorny on what you can or can’t say. And where’s dude proof. Those IM’s need to surface.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:54 pm
Ovieeeeeeeee?? Is tht u? Lmao.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:55 pm
Oh my word. I don't even care who the baller is or how juicy this story is. I completely feel for the victim of that whole situation. The health issues he experienced afterward just broke my heart. Mm mm mm… This whole downlow shit is a tragedy for those putting their heart on the line… Just can't get over how sad this whole scenario is..
January 5th, 2010 at 3:57 pm
Sorry but I know far too many people who have gone through similar things, only to be treated like shit b/c of something someone ELSE was trying to hide.
I have zero sympathy or regard for men who pull a hard dick out when no one's looking but wanna tuck it when it's convenient for them. Not cool. Remember, when you're a blogger, you don't always do what's politically correct. Your postings an attitude are simply a matter of opinion that people can either choose to agree with or not.
January 5th, 2010 at 3:59 pm
There's only one thing appropriate to say to some shit like this:
Ch……………….
January 5th, 2010 at 4:00 pm
lawdd!!
i needa know who this is
im sideeye-ing Michael Vick but he didnt start out as a low profile player, he was 1st pick
hmm continuing my investigation b.cuz im impatient
TELL US JIA!!!
January 5th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
Wow Ovie Phillip Mughelli
January 5th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
Oh well this happens to women all the time. But why put someone on blast now!!! move on this wont be the last and its probably not the first time your heart has been broken!! Bee otch please!!
January 5th, 2010 at 11:09 am
Damn, I needed an oversized cup for all this tea! Juicy. To the writer, you’re a strong person to have gone through all this. His “Cover,” like the movie, is about to be blown! That low down muthafucka NEEDS to be exposed!
January 5th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
i think its – Ovie Mughelli
January 5th, 2010 at 4:17 pm
It's not surprising that you would see fault in blasting this man, being formerly DL yourself.
But it's also not surprising that Jia, as a woman who lives and dates in ATL, would want to put something like this on front street. These types of dudes are a danger to themselves and the men AND women they like to flip-flop between, in a number of different ways.
I'm all for doing what you do and liking what you like….. but just be REAL about it. If you like a little bussy on the side, do you. But don't front about it.
January 5th, 2010 at 4:20 pm
did u actually read the letter? obviously not correctly
January 5th, 2010 at 11:22 am
Ummm is it wrong to say that I would’ve cashed that damn check and could’ve still been scorned and wrote this letter?! Lmao Sad situation… can’t wait to see who it is.
January 5th, 2010 at 4:24 pm
LMAOOOO say word? Me tooooooooooo lmao
January 5th, 2010 at 11:25 am
I’m sorry I don’t feel sorry for anyone that has allowed themselves to be used then gets dumped as if they didn’t know it was going to happen and then put someone on blast because they have went on to be successful what makes your situation any different from anyone else being dumped outside of the fact you think you getting revenge on someone to damage their career 2 wrongs don’t make a it right and what you also put out know that it will come back to you so I can’t bid you peace when you are not being peaceable
January 5th, 2010 at 4:28 pm
LOL @ All these women saying, get over it… Don't out him… Move on, happens to women all the time.
I bet if you're currently dating this mystery ball player, you'd LOVE to know his "extracurDICular" activities… Stop faking….
January 5th, 2010 at 4:30 pm
Is it just me missjia or do you keep erasing posts that reveal who dude is? [its kinda obvious] I guess u wanna reveal things in your own way tho…. *shrugs*
January 5th, 2010 at 4:36 pm
@missjia, you may also want to omit how much he signed the contract for as well as his position. Those are giveaways as well as the locations. *smile*
January 5th, 2010 at 4:38 pm
Are you serious!! So what you are saying cause someone is gay its okay to put someone else on blast!! We all have been hurt one time or another so we suppose to come back years later and be vindictive!! Move on find someone else cause Karma is a Bee otch!!!
January 5th, 2010 at 4:49 pm
ima agree wit whoever said if this was a woman, we woulda been like BITCH.BOO.BYE, you got played, you took care of this fool like you were his wife, and he didnt even claim you in public? i pray you get some self esteem, realize this was not a mutual relationship, i know you're hurt but exposing him would be mad dirty…
January 5th, 2010 at 4:50 pm
Why yall keep asking who it is..it has been posted several times…
January 5th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
Cant be though… it said the baller played in NC… Vick played at VA Tech…
January 5th, 2010 at 4:57 pm
Michael Vick is also a quarterback…I think it says this person was a running back.
January 5th, 2010 at 4:58 pm
WOW … what surprises me MOST is how people just automatically believe this to be true! C'mon people, anybody can write anything! Jealously and envy can be a bitch especially for people who have nothing but time on their hands.
Story sounds totally lame and made up!
January 5th, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Who the fuck cares if he is gay. Maybe people would be open if fuckers would stop being so judgemental. Damn half yall nasty ass women are bi anyway, that is just as bad.
January 5th, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Dang we on that investigative TIP! LOL I think it is..We'll see what MissJia says!! =)
January 5th, 2010 at 5:23 pm
is it Brian Williams?
January 5th, 2010 at 5:23 pm
i don't think its Vick either…. he got signed for 37mil….. the falcons are suing him for 20mil cause he couldn't finish out his contract
that was a good guess tho…
the only way this is possible is if numbers and/or p[laces were changed so we can't figure out who this person is
i cant think of anyone who graduated college in 02 (baller was a junior in 01) that on the falcons now that got signed 2-4 years ago… i think vick was only in college for 2years before he got signed in 01
January 5th, 2010 at 5:24 pm
nahh never mind
January 5th, 2010 at 5:24 pm
I google..and only thing I can find in 2007 concerning $20 million is Michael Vick.
F*cked up…helped you while you were struggling & still before you signed your contract. Thats alot of $ especially for someone who probably needed it themself
January 5th, 2010 at 5:28 pm
That's what I got.
January 5th, 2010 at 5:28 pm
Exactly.
January 5th, 2010 at 5:32 pm
this was the most interesting thing i've read in a long time! i feel so bad for whoever wrote it because he was obviously really hurt by that jackass. i can't wait to find out who it is!!! i will say that all this talk about guys in atlanta is making me somewhat rethink moving there lol. all the stories are just ridiculous!!
January 5th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
Goodness gracious! I wanna know who this is!
January 5th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
He's a cornerback.
January 5th, 2010 at 5:49 pm
What's bad or "nasty" about being bisexual? Or homosexual for that matter?
I don't think the point is just that he's gay. I think it's more-so that he's gay and tried to put his long-time lover out of the picture to save face.
January 5th, 2010 at 5:53 pm
i can only think of micheal turner , he's a RB and signed 2 yearsago and was drafted in 04
January 5th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
This is str8 up Gossip!!! It's against NCAA rules for any athlete to accept money or gifts from anyone other than Family. The player could LOSE his scholarship & the college will be fines and put on probation.
January 5th, 2010 at 6:07 pm
I feel the writers pain but I say he should've moved on. There are other ways to get things off your chest. No matter how bad he did you. When people walk out of your life then let them. The Athlete could've dealt with it a different way but damn.
January 5th, 2010 at 6:10 pm
michael vick, i did ma research
January 5th, 2010 at 6:13 pm
Hi. What exactly is the offense here. Sounds like NFL dude wanted to cut his ties, but made sure to pay his debts as well. If he would have just cut the lover off without rhyme or reason- wouldn't that have been more foul??
January 5th, 2010 at 6:32 pm
Dayummm. That's what he gets. tell your story boo!
January 5th, 2010 at 1:33 pm
I don’t understand what the big deal is about being gay? Why not just be who you are and why lie and try to pretend you’re something you’re not? It’s odd. I’m quite curious to see who this is though…..I can’t even front.
January 5th, 2010 at 7:09 pm
WOW!!! OH SHYT!!! Talk about steamy…definitely worth the long read and I can't WAIT to find out who this is about
January 5th, 2010 at 7:11 pm
I say out his nasty ass. and no, he's not nasty for being gay. he's damn nasty for being UNDERCOVER about his gay activities. sleeping with women, all the while sleeping with a man on the side? NASTY ASS. i'm quite sure this guy wasn't the only man he slept with either. he lied about many other things so trust, he was dipping a-plenty with his nasty ass. OUT HIM so women out here can know what they're dealing with. Some poor, unsuspecting woman is going to get into a relationship with this nasty dog and not realize what he's been doing in his free time. I could give a damn about the scorned gay man, as a woman, I care about the fact that far to many women of color are being infected with diseases from nasty ass men such as this one because they have no clue that the man they think is in a monogamous relationship with them, is dipping in some other man's behind. trife.
January 5th, 2010 at 7:16 pm
Negro Puhleezee….You want to right a wrong? No, you want to get paid. Gay, straight, whatever; relationships don't always workout. People break-up and go their ways for whatever reason. He didn't play you, you played yourself. You knew the deal before you got down, so why are you mad? You knew from the start that you two weren't going to go off living happily ever after, and he repeatedly showed you his shadiness. The bond you two had was all in your head. You should have kept the receipts, money orders, western unions, and cancelled checks from his college days then you'd have a leg to stand on in court. If you didnt do that then you should have taken the envelope when you had the chance. By the way…this can't be Michael Vick…he's a quarterback, and he got drafted to the NFL in 2001..this person's story starts in 2001. I think Ovie Mughelli would be a better guess.
January 5th, 2010 at 7:38 pm
OMG! Dude needs to let it go! You knew how he was the 1st go around when he didnt walk to you, so why would the 2nd be any different ESPECIALLY now that dude has money? Women (in this case men) are used as play things esp. to athletes and unfortunately it happened to you sorry…thats just how it is sometime. Your season was over and he moved on. The bottom line is, he is still not going to be with you even after you "expose" him. I dont understand the point of this and how it will allow YOU to get closure. The best way for YOU to get over this is to move on with YOUR life…He did. Yeah, we have all been hurt and betrayed, but at some point (especially 2 year later) you gotta let it go or seek professional help. I have been dogged out, but seeking revenge only makes you look pathetic, desperate, and crazy. Shoot, I've been there and I did not like that look on me.
Pull urself together. You are 33 not 13, its over…move on. Nothing to see here people.
**It was a juicy read tho. lol Almost E. Lynn Harris-esk. lol
January 5th, 2010 at 7:47 pm
I agree! u could have not put that in a better way wow! u are a beautiful person wish it was more like u…
January 5th, 2010 at 7:58 pm
damn .. they put the African boy out there like that .. connect the dots .. FB signed w/ ATL for about 18 mil .. it's over kid .. get these PEACHES outta here .. FRUIT !!!!!
January 5th, 2010 at 8:21 pm
That's who I thought too. I'm also thinking Jason Snelling since he was a fullback in college.
January 5th, 2010 at 9:00 pm
Its ME!
January 5th, 2010 at 9:08 pm
I'm MAD that i'm the only one who knows what baller this guy is talking about. come on! atlanta falcons. 20 million contract. school in north carolina. and the fact that he's been "most eligible bachelor" in a magazine was the dead giveaway for me. Wow Wow and double wow!
*walks away shaking my head*
January 5th, 2010 at 9:15 pm
Is it Bruce Bruce?
January 5th, 2010 at 9:32 pm
Damn Ovie Mughelli!!!
January 5th, 2010 at 9:40 pm
Its funny how people are agaisnt this guy doing this to the pro baller. However, judging from the letter the, the Pro baller initiated the wrong, so why not let him get what's coming to him. He shouldn't be excluded because he got money and it could hurt is career. This type of thing happens when you place money ova loved ones. If it was me, i wouldn't have a problem putting him on front street.
January 5th, 2010 at 4:51 pm
Chile boo…. Ppl put "dirty" ppl on blast all the damn time. Stop acting like it's brand new… It's NOT because he's gay, it's because was supposedly deceitful…
January 5th, 2010 at 10:00 pm
He is referring to Ovie Mughelli. OVIE MUGHELLI. OVIE MUGHELLI.
January 5th, 2010 at 10:03 pm
from what i read it is ovie mughelli he is in one them atl eligible bachelors list i jus saw his pic on there also he did get an 18mil deal wit the team plus the 5 mil bonus so if its true then he treat dude bad but after al this time and he did give him a payoff he shoulda jus took the money and move on wit his life no point holdin on to the past it jus makes u get sick and they livin it up and aint even thinkin bout u.
January 5th, 2010 at 10:07 pm
MissJia…I do believe it is Ovie Mughelli, a I stated above. But, why do you feel the need to out him? Just because he was with a man in the past does not mean that he has been with a man since. We have all made mistakes. For heavan's sake, YOU DID PORNO MOVIES. Do you want that to be held over your head in your professional career?
Does the fact that you did porn mean that you are a skanky whore? People need to stop judging other people. We all have skeletons.
January 5th, 2010 at 10:42 pm
OVIE MUGHELLI's info says school in South Carolina
January 5th, 2010 at 10:46 pm
for highschool yeah but for college no he went to a NC school for college
January 5th, 2010 at 10:47 pm
Garrett Reynolds
January 5th, 2010 at 10:55 pm
care to share?
January 5th, 2010 at 6:17 pm
What trips me out is half of all these women licking each other but don’t nobody say nothing because they think all dudes like that shhh but all dudes don’t want no other woman eating and sticking plastic. And rubber in they gurls so when is these women gone get blasted on they extra curricular activities cuz yall play a big part in this shh to.
January 5th, 2010 at 6:29 pm
That's what I was thinking too, but I don't know!
January 5th, 2010 at 11:37 pm
OVIE MUGHELLI!
January 6th, 2010 at 12:15 am
so when we gne find out, it's been all day? is it Ovie Mughelli
January 6th, 2010 at 12:35 am
Ur not the ONLY one miss Bitchie!! Its {O.M.} I think Jia just wants to reveal things her own way.
January 6th, 2010 at 12:35 am
DEAD
January 6th, 2010 at 12:54 am
MISSS THING!
Im riding the fence with this one….I feel for our writer but I understand Shocked response too.
But like all Moms say" Whats done in the dark will come to light."
If it wasnt him…Mr ATL would have someone else coming out with something.
All comes down to Karma.
(WTH does it matter if any ballplayer is gay or straight?!?!?! Either way Saints will beat their asses! Word.)
January 6th, 2010 at 1:03 am
All you have to do is go the the Atlanta Falcons roster, it lists all the players, look for the ones the who went to NC state or Wake Forest, out of those only two are black, you be the judge.
January 6th, 2010 at 1:15 am
Ovie Mughelli????????????????
January 6th, 2010 at 1:42 am
Unitl you are put in a situation then we should not be judgemental of people and their feelings….Hell I would have been up set tooo! Fool me once shame on me, fool me twice shame on you……Fool me three times and watch me SHAME you. Wake up call to all stop playing with people's feelings….Either hoot with the howls or soar with the eagles. Living two lives will catch up with you everytime….Look what happened to Tiger Woods. Live by the sword and you all know the ending.
January 6th, 2010 at 2:18 am
Why did http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/what-ball... <post this story??? Get em Miss jia!
January 6th, 2010 at 2:22 am
Well Miss Jia i hope that if your going to reveal the ball player that you also reveal the person who is accusing him… if the man is bold enough to put his ex on blast street then obviously he does not care about his own reputation and wants revenge so let him have it, with all the consquences that go along with it. Your reader obviously wants revenge and folks are talking about karma but seeking revenge for a messed up relationship that he willing participated in is no better. I mean both people participated in this mess of a relationship and even though it was a messed up relationship, that man made his choice to continue to be apart of this ball players lies and deceit, even if he called it "loving his partner and being a private person".
I just hate it when a relationship goes bad then folks wanna start running their mouth about what they didnt like about being in the relationship, YET didnt say a word when they were together…its irritating and unclassy to say the least.
January 6th, 2010 at 2:23 am
I was just thinking the same thing!!
January 6th, 2010 at 2:51 am
Rush Limbaugh?
January 5th, 2010 at 10:46 pm
Brian Williams
January 5th, 2010 at 10:48 pm
Steve Hauschka
January 5th, 2010 at 11:00 pm
yeah he went to Wake Forest University in NC
January 6th, 2010 at 4:05 am
HIS NAME IS OVIE MUGHELLI #34 TRUST ME I KNOW!!!!! GAY GAY GAY SUPER GAY
January 6th, 2010 at 4:23 am
Hey Ms Jia (BMM),
I know who it is!!! WOW!!! Never thought people were so much like E. Lynn Harris novels!
Hope you are well girlie!!!
January 6th, 2010 at 5:14 am
look Miss Jis imma need you to gon head an spill the tea….. PLEASE???? lol dude will be BLOWN…well thats GAY-TL for ya.
January 6th, 2010 at 5:32 am
I know who it is!!! Just wanna see your proof Jia!!! lol
January 6th, 2010 at 6:31 am
sh*t, now this is what makes your postings interesting and based on ur reply to @shocked, that's the jia i've grown to know. i'm mad someone beat me to the punch of googling and found mike vick. lmao. ay, get it where get it. anywho..i'll be checking in for the update.
January 6th, 2010 at 6:32 am
Seeing as though my post was deleted I will REPOST what I said earlier. The player that this letter is about is #34 from the Atlanta Falcons and his name is OVIE MUGHELLI!!!
TRUST ME….I KNOW! I DO HAVE MY SOURCES!!! Toodles! :>)
January 6th, 2010 at 6:34 am
I think that too much information was given for it to be a REAL BIG SECRET! But hey…I can't wait for the article to come out
January 6th, 2010 at 6:48 am
Its Ovive Mughelli…..
Ask me for details if you want to know…
January 6th, 2010 at 7:11 am
Thats what I had posted about 3 hours ago but she deleted my post and I did a repost but I dont see it! Oh well…your right though Chrissy it totally is him!
January 6th, 2010 at 7:13 am
Ovive Mughelli…thats it thats it thats it!
January 6th, 2010 at 7:35 am
I'm pretttttyyyyyy sure I figured out who it is, but I will wait for the "Big Reveal."
Now on to my thoughts about this situation. Let me start off by saying that I have no issues with gay people whatsoever. That being said, the people I DO have a problem with are these DL motherfuckers. In my mind, "DL" is synonymous with "liar" and I can't stand liars. Basically you are sneaking around and living your life one way with one person, then flipping the switch and showing another side of yourself with someone else.
I don't know if there are too many cases of women being DL, but as for men, it pisses me off because by you not disclosing ALL of your sexual preferences, you are not giving me a choice as to whether I should deal with you or not. Maybe some women are okay with dating a bisexual man (I'm not, but to each it's own.) However, I can respect someone who's upfront with their shit. When you're lying and telling me what you THINK I want to hear just so you can keep up your lifestyle, it becomes a problem. Just like this situation here, the truth will always come out and if the truth came out about some dude that I was in a relationship with, that's what would make a chick turn this whole ordeal into some "Snapped" shit.
Lastly, I feel for this man and what he endured, and at the same time I wonder why someone who is openly gay would even allow themselves to get involved with someone who is not. It seems as if you are asking for trouble because the other person obviously is not comfortable enough with his sexuality to be out with it. If he ignored text messages/phone calls earlier in the relationship, I don't think it would come as a surprise that he would be shady later on as well.
January 6th, 2010 at 7:50 am
Tomfoolery LOL That's my fave phrase right now and you're right, this is a shining moment for Tomfoolery. What a way to kick of 2010.
January 6th, 2010 at 7:51 am
You know, when I was reading it, it did read just like an E Lynn Harris novel! And I haven't read one in a minute so this was a nice lil tidbit LOL
January 6th, 2010 at 8:08 am
I know who it is!!! Me and my boyfriend been searching like the FBI 2 find out who he is and I think Ive figured HIM OUT! It's Ovie Mughelli !!!! All the facts from the letter add up 2 him….He's a cutie 2…I see why that guy is pissed.
January 6th, 2010 at 8:28 am
Weeeeelllll………being a future detective. I took it upon myself to conduct my own research. I for one came to the conclusion that there are only 3-4 fullbacks on a professional football team. I put together certain clues from within the letter and compared them to those active teammates for the Atlanta Falcons. I have come to a conclusion that it is not Ovie Mughelli( who attended college in NC), nor is it Jason Snelling, (although, I could be wrong). Therefore, there is only 1 fullback left, due to the fact that the Atlanta Falcon's only have 3 fullbacks.
January 6th, 2010 at 4:09 am
True, it's not hard. Go to the Atlanta Falcons roster, look for fullbacks, and they tell you where they went to college.
LMAO
But I still can't wait for the MissJia confirmation/article. I know it's gonna JUICY!
January 6th, 2010 at 4:38 am
i know who it is .. he palyed at wake for..
January 6th, 2010 at 5:22 am
yepp he was in Essence mag as the most eligible bachelor……knowing that mag is for women and he likes men… Tomfoolerary at it's finest!
January 6th, 2010 at 12:45 pm
Well, well, well!! Talk about JUICY; can't wait to find out who it is…lol
January 6th, 2010 at 2:23 pm
Ovie Mughelli
January 6th, 2010 at 2:44 pm
BTW @missjia Media Takeout stole your story this morning. No credit given whatsoever.
January 6th, 2010 at 9:47 am
[...] quite a few of you guessed that it was Ovie from THIS post from yesterday. I didn’t do a great job at hiding the clues, did [...]
January 6th, 2010 at 3:33 pm
For those who said it was Ovie Mughelli, it couldn't be. His dad has been my gynecologist since I was 16. His dad was very proud of him, so why wouldn't he give him money? I think you guys need to keep looking for your guy.
January 6th, 2010 at 3:40 pm
Ass. Jia just confirmed that it was HIM. He went to wake forest [college in nc] he IS a fullback. Plays for atl. Has been the most eligible bachelor on several mags. Played for the B-more Ravens. & THERE ARE PICS of his half naked ass posing in some seedy motel room for the camera…credit card statements etc.
January 6th, 2010 at 3:43 pm
Dang, thats messed up then.
January 6th, 2010 at 12:47 pm
Okay, I wasn't going to post on this topic, because as I said this year I am just going to let people be great and eat. Not to mention the fact that I hate blind items; however you promised a name and I am waiting for it… So, will you mention the name in another segment or did I miss it already?
January 6th, 2010 at 6:47 pm
you're right. she deleted my comment when i said it was him and provided an explanation as to why
January 6th, 2010 at 6:54 pm
Ovie Mughelli
January 6th, 2010 at 6:54 pm
Omgsh I wanna kno who it is!
(S.N) Mediatakeout STOLE this story from you MissJia lol. They steal from Necole Bitchie too. smh
January 6th, 2010 at 6:59 pm
Jia why u delete my comment =( just guessing
January 6th, 2010 at 8:15 pm
um… maybe because the women out here licking one another are not lying to the men they're sleeping with and infecting them with diseases…just a though
January 6th, 2010 at 3:33 pm
For those who said it was Ovie Mughelli, it couldn't be. His dad has been my gynecologist since I was 16. His dad was very proud of him, so why wouldn't he give him money? I think you guys need to keep looking for your guy.
January 6th, 2010 at 6:47 pm
you're right. she deleted my comment when i said it was him and provided an explanation as to why
January 6th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Really… it kinda sounds like E Lynn's Basketball Jones… it had a similar story to this… makes me wonder.
January 6th, 2010 at 9:04 pm
[...] your female companions, of the moment, and have them give you the scoop once it’s processed. Ovie’s Undercover Butt Pirate Tales of Sex, Scandal and Betrayal [Part One] Ovie’s “NFL Policing, Trying To Make His “Alleged Lover” Sign…Well, [...]
January 6th, 2010 at 10:47 pm
[...] story, which first appeared on the website”Miss Jia,” had a detailed account of the heartbreak and humiliation suffered by the former gay lover [...]
January 7th, 2010 at 4:56 am
What kind of silly ish is this? People break up and leave relationships all the time. Dude rode the ride, the ride came to an end, now it's time to get off and walk away. It's pretty clear that this is about the money you ain't getting anymore no matter how much you claim it isn't about the money. The women this dude is dating probably know what the deal is and they trying to get paid too.
January 7th, 2010 at 6:01 am
All is fair in love and war. Now that you've declared war for a lost love you probably need to get ready for the response. I'm sure if this has any merit Tiger Woods will thank you for the relief although this pales in comparison.
January 7th, 2010 at 7:20 am
i'm sorry for what happened to you…but is disappointed that you have to put him on blast like you did….i still fail to see how that will help you or cause him to come back to you…..You must have known when you met him that you saw some potential of his success. This happens all to often, especially in college, where someone latch on to an athlete, hoping he will go pro and they cash in on someone else success. Sometimes you do get lucky and it happens, but you also have to realize that when they become "super stars" they change and have to market themselves as a product. You claim you never wanted a sexual relationship with him nor did you want his money. Well, if this is true and you had his best interest in mine from day one, why did you agree to the sex….you could have refused him and told him you just wanted to be friends and stopped the relationship if he didn't abide by your wish. But, instead you met with him secretly, you loaned him money allowing yourself to get more and more attached to him. You could have put an end to this way before it got out of hand. I'm not saying he didn't have feeling for you at the time…but you have to be realistic in that peeps fall out of love just as quick as they fall in….love is not a guarantee forever…I'm sorry that you got more emotionally attached to him than he did…..but, I see this no more than someone who had a good time with a "baller" and now that the good times are over…you are upset and want him to suffer for not wanting to be with you anymore. Relationships go bad and usually you get hints based on how the person acts (e.g. avoiding your calls, not as talkative as before, etc..etc..) As far as I am concerned, you should have taken the money(that he said he would give you anyways) and been on your way…..at least that way he wouldn't have viewed you as a threat to his career and would have probably remained friends with you when his schedule would allow him too. But, because of this I doubt now that will ever happen again. I still don't understand what you wanted him to do in his situation, did you want him to publicly acknowledge your relationship….even if you were a female, i doubt he would do that unless he was planning on marriage. People in the limelight have to keep their business private just because of incidents like this…….and in a way, i really cannot blame them…..i'm not saying you have to intentionally hurt people because you can due to your status…but, some people go after other just because of their status and when they dont get what they want they try to destroy them….
January 7th, 2010 at 2:43 pm
Ovie Mughelli
January 7th, 2010 at 1:24 pm
[...] I am not going to try and review all of the details. I’ll let you check out missJia for that [Link] but I’d say the “evidence” is not that convincing YET. People are crazy and I [...]
January 7th, 2010 at 5:54 pm
[...] evidence showing that he’s a D-rider. It’s a scandalous underhanded way the Ovie Undercover Butt Pirate Tales of Sex, is now being put on FRONT [...]
January 8th, 2010 at 2:49 am
Dude. I feel your pain. However, we have all been down this road. I am sure that the first lesson that you learned is that you don't create a man. They are either a man or you aren't. If you aren't a man, then get the F**K on. A friend's mother used to say, "Don't mess with trash and it won't get into your eye". As children, we used to laugh, but as an adult, I so understand. A woman or man scorned is a force to be reckoned with, however, how and when you reckon is up to you. I'm not recommending that you compromise your integrity or your self-worth by accepting the check. However, airing your dirty laundry in public isn't the answer either. "What doesn't come in the rinse, comes out in the wash". Listen to the old folks. They have some of the major answers. I hope that you receive all that you want from this fiasco. But, if you don't, keep it wholesome for yourself.
January 8th, 2010 at 3:51 am
First of all, whoever wrote this letter sounds like a complete hypocrit. I read every word and I must say, one thing is true–E. Lynn Harris (R.I.P) must be turning in his grave. "Basketball Jones" all over again. First of all, I don't believe one word of this bullshit, and here's why? The author, who has yet to "Reveal" himself states that he is so public and open with his sexuality, yet he's not revealing who he is, but whom he slept with?
January 8th, 2010 at 3:52 am
Secondly, when Ovie first left you hanging, because the "season wasn't over"–remember that? Yeah, ole punk ass was hurt and upset that he was kicked to the curb. Stating, how can he not speak to me, boo-hoo, I paid his way through college, loaned him all this money, waahh-waaahh–then, the minute his "lawyer" slips you an evelope of "money"–the same money you were crying about loaning him all those years, and probably MORE–you start tripping? Uum, excuse me Mr. Punk Ass, but weren't YOU the one that suggested to Ovie that you guys kept your relationship a secret in the first place? Weren't YOU the one "acting" and "Pretending" to be someone you wasn't when you were around him in public to save his image? Then why when he takes control for himself and does the same thing, you have a problem with it? I disagree with you, this letter and how you are coming at this brotha sideways and from out of pocket.
January 8th, 2010 at 3:53 am
If I was Ovie, I would sue your ass for everything you own, to include Slander and much more. Anyone can produce a damn ticket stub from a game in Baltimore. As far as the photos is concerned, unless you produce some with YOU and OVIE in them, I don't believe a word of this trash. And I'm not saying this because I'm a fan of the Ravens, of Ovie or Gays–I just don't like contradicting ass hypocrits. And that's what you read like to me.
January 8th, 2010 at 8:37 am
Him being with women wasn't your concern when you were fucking him, now was it?You didn't mind the fact that he was seeing women when he was sending you free tickets and money to travel and rent cars and shit, now did you? So why do you have a problem with him sleeping with them now that he isn't talking to you? Oh, because you're no longer fucking him and he isn't sending you those free tickets anymore is that why? Or is it because you can't enjoy the success of his MONEY now that he's got some? If deep down inside you wanted to be paid back for all the times you loaned him money, you should have made that clearer to him when he was sending you the tickets to his game and paying YOUR WAY to come see him. If its about "love" or the love you thought you guys shared, then you should understand that being an athlete warrants some privacy and that his sexuality shouldn't be "anybody's business". Sounds familiar doesn't it?
January 8th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
This is some bullsh@!,
THink about it, in a time of a declining recession, over 10million people out of work, and the author himself not up on money, …he's turning down 100k!.. This jerk-off, is hell bent on getting his in one way or the other… Peep game: Google just about any celebrity and there's a gay rumor about them in some capacity. As long as you have "shock jocks" or jockets like Miss (Jiant) mouth, you'll always have these unsubstantiated claims floating around.. My advise, go to school, get some real MMA training ,and respect the game do some real journalism, so at least you'll have some proof before you go fu*kin' up people's lives…
U might win some, But U just lost…
ONe
January 8th, 2010 at 6:11 pm
So how do you move on? That is so easier said then done.
January 8th, 2010 at 6:53 pm
I have heard this type of story too many times. If homophobia was not rampant in the black and Latino community it would be no big deal. On television you can point to Ellen, Rosie, Richard Simmons and so many more white celebrities that are out. This kid is an asshole and will pay not because he is gay but because he is a liar and deceiver. He lied to this brother, himself and he lied to the women he dates and so many others. Stand up and be a man. Wait till the pictures come out and we will see how many straight people stand by him. Shame Shame Shame.
January 8th, 2010 at 2:47 pm
This is some bullsh@!,
THink about it, in a time of a declining recession, over 10million people out of work, and the author himself not up on money, …he's turning down 100k!.. This jerk-off, is hell bent on getting his in one way or the other… Peep game: Google just about any celebrity and there's a gay rumor about them in some capacity. As long as you have "shock jocks" or jockets like Miss (Jiant) mouth, you'll always have these unsubstantiated claims floating around.. My advise, go to school, get some real MMA training ,and respect the game do some real journalism, so at least you'll have some proof before you go fu*kin' up people's lives…
U might win some, But U just lost…
ONe
January 8th, 2010 at 3:22 pm
correct me if i'm wrong, but i though he said he was a private person and he was the one that didn't want their "bizness" out there. So why is he trying to put their "bizness" out their now? because he's hurt?
January 9th, 2010 at 1:22 am
Oh shut the fuck up. Seriously. lol
January 9th, 2010 at 6:10 am
[...] WHOA! An Atlanta Baller Is Gay & Did WHAT?!? Miss Jia [...]
January 9th, 2010 at 4:32 pm
Yall dont even know this person. I do!!!! This is going to ruin his life. I know his parents and his support system and what that letter says is a bunch of bull! 2 wrongs don't make a right. This guy was hurt, but it was in private. Ovie has to deal with this in public on a personal and professional level. You should be ashamed.
January 9th, 2010 at 6:15 pm
interesting. waiting on the next Tiger moment.
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January 9th, 2010 at 10:58 pm
[...] of the “ATL Baller” Letter Speaks Out After posting a blind item that included a letter from a man who claims to have had a relationship with Falcons fullback, Ovie Mughelli, several of [...]
January 10th, 2010 at 4:30 am
[...] of its NFL football ties to the Atlanta Falcons, a team I follow. The story originated over at Miss Jia’s blog. She posted a letter from a wounded, former, ex-lover of Atlanta Falcons football player, [...]
January 10th, 2010 at 9:27 pm
Followed the video from youtube here. This is interesting dude is in serious denial about this situation. He's hurting, and although he won't admit it he wants to be acknowledged.
I'm not surprised at all there are so many men walking around with women hate issues and they seek the attention and affection of men
January 11th, 2010 at 5:16 am
IS IT VERNON HAYES TELL ME SOMETHING
January 11th, 2010 at 7:30 pm
[...] meant to keep the player anonymous for a few days in order to build buzz for a big reveal, is found here; the final reveal, which includes some supplementary evidence (pictures, receipts, etc), is found [...]
January 12th, 2010 at 4:37 am
lmaooooo i love it…good shyt 4real
January 12th, 2010 at 11:14 pm
our personal affairs are ours. get off the man's nuts. this guy seem to be very jealous of the fame and fortune that ovie has. we all ask him to get a life. it is so ovious that it is all jealousy.
January 14th, 2010 at 3:20 am
WOW. This dude deserved what he got. Look at how he has behaved. You talk about the athlete like he is scum, but look at what your actions have yielded. And why – because you got hurt? Who are YOU to be above the drama that is loving another – regardless of their gender. Go ahead and "out" him. You MAY ruin him, but you will still feel like the lowest thing on this earth. Be the man you claim you wanted him to be and just move on. This is SAD.
January 14th, 2010 at 2:42 am
Uhm…where's your evidence? Text messages? Flight manifests? Hotel reservations? I mean, how do you substantiate this story?
January 15th, 2010 at 2:34 pm
I scorned heart is crazy. But honeslty I think he should leave it alone. Who are we to teach someone a lesson. And what if the ballplayer doesn’t respond still? This guy will spend the rest of his life trying to “pay back” SMH~no go live your life and find happiness, Brother. This guy will get his in the end. Don’t you worry about it.
January 19th, 2010 at 3:49 pm
Is there ACTUAL proof that this relationship took place. A convincing story is NOT proof. Photos of them together, cashed checks that were signed by Mughelli, impartial witnesses… THAT would be more convincing. For a couple that supposedly were together for a long time, other people had to know about it. Right?
January 21st, 2010 at 7:43 pm
Ur an EVIL BIcTH for tryin to ruin this dude life Jia……
January 23rd, 2010 at 6:04 am
[...] case you missed the first part of this story (which I didnt run) here is the link to the original letter that was submited. Share var button = [...]
January 25th, 2010 at 12:55 am
[...] she got a major scoop and outed a professional football player, Ovie Mughelli, publishing documents on her blog from his jilted ex-lover to prove his story right. And she’s getting exclusive interviews from [...]
January 29th, 2010 at 7:02 pm
[...] lawyer began sending out cease and desist letters in early January after websites–including Miss Jia, Mediaoutrage, and Queerty–ran stories about the reported relationship between Mughelli and [...]
January 30th, 2010 at 2:38 am
Fag shyt…lol
January 31st, 2010 at 10:26 am
These fags these days never cease to come up with new tales..I bet this is a bunch of bull. So after, how many years, you decide to come up with this "email". Where the proofs that yu guys had anything going on?
BS
February 22nd, 2010 at 1:06 am
WHOA…can I get a link to your blog? sounds interesting…
February 24th, 2010 at 10:57 am
LOL Ovie Mughelli…. I googled that shit!!!!
March 21st, 2010 at 7:59 pm
Wow that is wrong of him to do that to u after everything u did for him. I would let him leave his sorry ass life because in the end he will not be happy with the decision he made for his life. I know it hurts but u have to move on. He didn't follow his heart or wasn't happy with himself to allow y'all relationship to grow at all. What I'm saying is that he is feeling his own pain and punishment right now because he doesn't have u in his life. Everyday he wakes up living this life that is a lie and that will hurt him the most. There is no large amount of money that will take away his pain. All u can do is pray for him and let him be him because at the end of the day he still have to look at himself in the mirror and face his unhappy life. When u look in the mirror u can't hide what u truly feeling because it's written all over his face. Take it from a gay man who know s someone who can face the fact that they are gay. He is living a miserable life and will sooner or later realize that with all his money that he has is still unhappy because he is living a lie. You have every right to be mad with him for what he did to u but forgiving him is the best thing to do and moving on is the key to your happiest. The pain he feeling inside is going to eat him alive. He will have to remove his mask one day and let his true face show. Remember two wrongs don't make a right. Don't be wrong because he was wrong. My mother always told me you have trust and believe that karma is a bitch and what u put out will come back to u three times harder than what u put out into that negative world. Keep ur head up high and love urself and forgive him to move on. There will be a man out there waiting on u. You'll find that right man for u. Remember it's him running from himself because he can't face the fact that he is gay or straight or bisexual. It doesn't matter because he has to take a long look in the mirror and that when it will hit him hard. Stay strong. thanks
March 22nd, 2010 at 7:32 pm
who is it??? i tried to google & all that stuff, & i found 3 people already but i dont know which one is it. pleaseeee do tell.
March 29th, 2010 at 1:18 am
Ovie Mughelli ???
April 15th, 2010 at 9:48 pm
Dont reveal this brother.
May 19th, 2010 at 8:37 pm
reveal his faggot ass it’s Ovie Mughelli the people that are telling jia not reveal the homo are future HIV patients nast asses
May 30th, 2010 at 8:33 am
I promise this is basketball jones. While I was reading this, I was like dammit, I have heard this before!!!
June 19th, 2010 at 1:29 pm
Ovie Mughelli he the only fb on the Falcons that went to a school around NC. The internet is a blessing
June 19th, 2010 at 9:57 pm
I agree!! if it was any other guy that broke your heart you would move on… so what he tried to give you a check take it and bounce that is better then any other Joe Blow (no pun intended) that leaves you with a broken heart and empty pockets. Quit bitching and move on and stop trying to be messy….
July 8th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
im late but who is it
August 25th, 2010 at 2:10 am
THIS IS NOT TRUE….I WAS DEALING WITH HIM ON AND OFF DURING THIS TIME AND I KNOW THAT HE IS ALL MAN AND WOULD NOT SLEEP WITH A DUDE. HE LOVES HIS PARENTS AND THEY MAKE GOOD MONEY AND WOULD NOT LEAVE HIM BROKE DURING COLLEGE…. THIS IS SOME GAY DUDE WHO'S BITTER MAYBE BECAUSE XXX WON'T GIVE HIM PLAY. GET A LIFE!