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Dear Miss Jia,
I guess I’ll get right into it. Now, the deal between a friend of mine and me is that, if the consensus says that I’m really wrong AND it can be justified, then I’ll cut the situation. Alright, about 5 months ago, I was hanging out with some of my girls at a club. It was a little grown and sexy spot with a LOT of fine men there but one really caught my attention. We began chatting it up for a while and once the spot was beginning to shut down, we decided to exchange numbers. The next day, I talked to him for a few hours and during the course of our conversation, he shared with me that he was married.

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Dear Miss Jia,
I won’t make this letter long and drawn out but I just need answers on what to do. I have been dating this guy for over two years and while things are great, we’re nowhere near the point of marriage or anything like that…at least in MY eyes we’re not. While I do love him to death, I still feel that we both have a lot of growing up to do. I’m 24, he’s 25. About two weeks ago, I started feeling a little queasy, took a pregnancy test and found out that I was pregnant.

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Hey Miss Jia,

I would like to start off by saying how much I love your site. Your realness in this industry is truly a breath of fresh air compared to all the censored sh*t we’re used to hearing. ANYWHO, back to the matter at hand. I came across one of your YouTube videos, “You’z a Jumpoff” (clickable link) and as you listed the makings of a jump-off I said “OMG!! I think my friend is a jumpoff!!” First let me give you a little background.

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Please, I’m in need of some advice. I’ve been seeing a very nice man for the last year, and he is truly a wonderful person. I met him at a lounge, and his accent through me for a loop. We exchanged numbers and have been a couple since. I do have to say that we come from completely different backgrounds. His family is like the real life Huxtables. His parents are from Nigeria and he said education is really important in his family. His mother is a professor, while his father is a surgeon. His sister is a lawyer, his brother is in med school and he’s an architect.

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I recently started seeing this guy that I met online. Aside from him being extremely fine as hell, he and I have a lot in common. I was happy when we hit it off and he requested to keep seeing me because he seems to be a very grounded person.

After having a couple back and forth discussions about relationships and how sex can complicate things if it’s started too early, we both decided that it’d be a good idea to wait it out but still let things take a natural course.
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My homegirl and I planned a trip to Allstar weekend in Dallas. We get there on Friday, and on Saturday, 30 minutes before we were on our way out, she told me she only had $15 in the bank.

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It’s crazy that I’m writing into a blog when I haven’t even talked to my folks about it. Alright, I started dating this girl that I met last year. We are a monogamous couple. I don’t cheat, don’t even flirt with anybody. We’re just now getting to a point where we’re starting to meet one another’s family members. A couple weeks ago, we were invited to a house party that one of her friends was throwing. I was happy to go because I haven’t met many of her friends, so this was straight to me.

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I really love your site! I have been following you for a couple years now, first through Youtube. I think that everyone loves your realness and hopefully you can provide me with some realness on this issue.

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