AJ, Kandi’s Fiance from RHOA, Killed (UPDATE)

Update 10/3/09 11:28am (eastern): Police have arrested Fredrick Richardson as a person of interest and charged him with voluntary manslaughter. Click HERE for the article. Kandi also posted the following on her Twitter page:
I could never in a million years imagine this happening. Please pray for AJ’s children. That’s who I’m the most concerned for. I’m just in one of those moods where I don’t wanna talk, I don’t wanna be held & told it’s gonna be ok. I just wanna cry myself to sleep, alone.
Update 12:03 am (eastern): The AJC is NOW reporting that a brawl did indeed take place but have not released a name.
Update 12:12 am (eastern): WSBTV is NOW confirming the news surrounding AJ’s death. They are saying that he was stabbed.
I just received word that AJ, who was Kandi’s (RHOA) finance, was beat to death in a brawl at Body Tap Exclusive in Atlanta. My sources state that AJ was a promoter partial owner of the strip club and was hit in the head. He was rushed to a nearby hospital where he passed away from his injuries. People who are currently inside the club are texting FROM the club but no additional information is available. Here is a tweet from Lil Bankhead of Atlanta’s V-103:
@LILBANKHEADV103: Rip to my nigga AJ. kandi atl house wife nigga. Damn pray for yall fam.
Definitely sad news. Developing…











October 2nd, 2009 at 11:50 pm
God Bless their family at this time.
you just don’t know when its your time folks.
please, make everyday as right as you can.
October 3rd, 2009 at 12:07 am
0MFG!! I AM SO SHOCKED! I AM IN DISBELIEF! OMFG I KNOW KHANDI IS GOING THRU IT! AFTER ALL THE TIME AND DRAMA SHE WENT THRU TO MAKE DAT RELATIONSHIP WORK! AGAINST ALL ODDS SHE WAS WILLING TO STILL BE HIS WIFE EVEN THO HE HAS 6 KIDS! OH WOW I KNOW HER AND HER DAUGHTER ARE COMPLETELY GOING CRAZY! THIS IS SO SAD! THIS HIT ME SO HARD AND ITS AN EYEOPENER THAT LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR ANY NONSENSE! I PRAY 4 KHANDI!! OMFG….I GOT TEARS ROLLN DOWN MY FACE!
October 3rd, 2009 at 12:22 am
omg… We were jus sittin here watchin them on RHOA saying how such a beautiful couple they are! I look at Kandi as a role model and a mentor for young women and it really bothers me to hear this information. I hopeveryone realizes just how short life is..and how all the petty drama is not worth it..Kandi you and your family are in my prayer!
October 3rd, 2009 at 12:40 am
Kandi im sorry for your loss and my prayers out to you and his family.
This is a darn shame that some AA men continue to be violent toward each other for some nonsense.
Men when will the violence stop, you took the life of a Father, son and a fiance.
You stole what his children should have been able to enjoy the life with their father.
I hope you SOB get whats coming to you.
October 3rd, 2009 at 2:39 am
[...] publicist, Lisa Nelson, confirmed to WSBTV reporter Brian Johnson, via Miss Jia, that news has reached Burruss and her family and she is of course devastated. Lastly, friend, Kim [...]
October 3rd, 2009 at 4:54 am
so sorry to hear this.she lost gerald levert a few years ago now,now aj. she is such a beautiful person, i hate this for her.praying for you kandi.
October 3rd, 2009 at 8:54 am
[...] SOURCE: MISS JIA [...]
October 3rd, 2009 at 11:20 am
This is sad. Really sad. He has children. Life is short. My thoughts are with the families.
October 3rd, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Im praying for her…09 has TOO many surprises…we almost discovered my aunt dead on the floor last week…barely made it but is paralyzed, can’t speak, etc….they’re still watching her and she was fine the night b4. Life I tell u! Its crazy to just be in contact with a love one and some ish happens that u couuldnt foresee. Kandi is now carrying a lot of burden plus her uncle too? geez. To think weeks ago AJ was looked down upon.. very sad
God will get her through this
October 3rd, 2009 at 6:38 pm
Words can’t express how sad this moment is……… I can only say may god be ur confidant in this time of mourning may god be with you only time will heal ur pain….. God will give u perfect peace,pray and keep praying,ur in my prayer…. LUV
October 4th, 2009 at 1:32 am
[...] fatal injuries to the head in a fight at Atlanta club Body Tap. AJ was not there to party, he was a partial owner of the [...]
October 5th, 2009 at 6:45 pm
No disrespect to her momma, but if she feels no sort of guilt or sympathy of his death, she's a heartless bitch.
Now Kandi, to me, is the realest one on the show, and it should be hard for her to cope with that, along with her fiance's son in ICU at the time.
The girls should definitely feel sorry for her after that. I'm pretty sure Lisa would, because she still couldn't handle her brother's death. Sheree cried when Kandi told her about A.J.'s son, so she might. Kim and Nene, however, are the mysteries.
Although i don't even know her in person, I'll prey for her.
October 5th, 2009 at 3:13 pm
SAD SITUATION FOR EVERYBODY INVOLVED.KANDI HAS HAD ISSUE AFTER ISSUE..AND MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER AND I FEEL NOW IS THE TIME FOR HER MOTHER TO EMBRACE HER DAUGHTER AND BUT ALL HER HATE TOWARD AJ TO REST AND LET HIM RIP.. KANDI BABY GIRL I WILL KEEP PRAYING FOR YOU AND HIS CHILDREN,B/C THEY WILL BE W/O A FATHER NOW..
October 5th, 2009 at 10:25 pm
that was very disrespectful TJ what you commentd about kandi’s mother…no! she shouldn’t feel guilty about what happend to AJ she may be feeling remorceful but she don’t have to feel guilty….what she felt for him when he was alive has nothing to do with what happend to him at that club she wasn’t the 1 that killed him…besides she was only exprssng her feelngs as Kandi’s mother toward the situation of him having so many kids and to many mothers of those kids so n sayng all that she’s still her mother!!
October 7th, 2009 at 10:14 pm
My heart goes out to Kandi and AJ’s family. May God keep your hearts and minds in perfect peace. We may not always understand the hand of God, but we need to know the heart of God.
October 9th, 2009 at 4:41 pm
i really hate to hear that you really have to cherish what you have because you never know when that person is going to be gone i really can imagine how she feel i hope god give her strength and a peace of mind.
October 18th, 2009 at 10:21 pm
wow thts not fair tht her husband was killed and tht the had 6 children i feel so bad for kandi. Sorry even though i dont live in atlantashout out to kandi sorry for what happened to your husband (fiance)
October 18th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
i feel your pain i feel so bad for
October 20th, 2009 at 10:03 am
sorry kandi – also rip aj, prayers go out to his family.
also i read some crap on here or another page last week and someone said kandi treated him bad? r u dumb u fricken idiot she fricken loved him and didn't care about what others said even her own mom!